The Case of Narcissism vs. George Floyd

On Narcissistic Abusers Awareness Day we rightfully ask: Is Racism The Root Of This Evil?

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Your Honor, 2020 has crafted the perfect storm for total chaos

This is getting heavy…. I need a moment.

I’ll regret this, but I’d like to call myself as a witness to the stand.

Once upon a time, I was married

something started to change…

I was horrified. Tears filled my eyes. I remember thinking ‘am I on, ‘Who the **** Did I marry!?” a series documentary on spouses that did the unthinkable with few warning signs, shocking their loved ones that slept right next to them….

That wasn’t the end of the monstrous boasting on torture, it never seemed to cease

My heart mourns for people of color. I can’t imagine my life without my “Privileged Pass

The police had more questions before they could help me.

Who do you call for help when the police are the bad guys?

Ouch. I’m sorry, but this is a case for George Floyd. So, what does your story have to do with murder?

“Super Troopers” and the “extreme superhero complex”

One of the most discreet and dangerous types of abuse is killing more than we can ever imagine

Narcissists, According to The Mayo Clinic:

Symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder

  • Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
  • Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration
  • Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
  • Exaggerate achievements and talents
  • Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
  • Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people
  • Monopolize conversations and belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior
  • Expect special favors and unquestioning compliance with their expectations
  • Take advantage of others to get what they want
  • Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others
  • Be envious of others and believe others envy them
  • Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious
  • Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office
  • Become impatient or angry when they don’t receive special treatment
  • Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted
  • React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior
  • Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior
  • Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change
  • Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
  • Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation

When to see a doctor

Sound like anyone you know?

The court rules in the case of Narcissism vs Cops: Married until death do them part.

The Judge orders a temporary protective order to stop narcissistic behaviors.

Perfect! A moment of rest! Now, how do you fully stop a narcissist?

If narcissism is the issue, are we fighting a hopeless war?

Where in the world is a good starting point to rebirth a peaceful society?

In the case of George Floyd we rule:

DROP YOUR WEAPONS! Police have been loading the wrong guns for a long time…

In 1997, Robert Jordan filed a discrimination lawsuit against the city of New London, Conn., after they deemed him too smart to be an enforcement officer and denied him employment. Source.

“A good head and good heart are always a formidable combination. But when you add to that a literate tongue or pen, then you have something very special…..The power of education extends beyond the development of skills we need for economic success. It can contribute to nation-building and reconciliation.”

In the case of George Floyd we rule:

Final Words.

No one is perfect and it’s never to late to start aligning with what’s mutually beneficial for all

Note, while this is an unrealistic expectation, it’s a fantastic practice to condition good behavior patterns.


Thank you.





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